摘要
<正>1.Disarm them with your vulnerability示弱让他们放松警惕Sometimes the quickest way to make another person comfortable is to be vulnerable yourself.On a flight? Tell your seatmate,"Flying makes me a little nervous."有时让别人舒服的最快方法就是示弱。坐飞机时可以告诉同座的乘客"坐飞机我有点紧张"。2. Be brutally honest敢说真话Being honest is best as it doesn’t waste anyone’s time.诚实最好,因为不浪费任何人的时间。